At our clinic, we often field a variety of inquiries from those embarking on the journey of parenthood through surrogacy. If you’re considering this path, you might have similar questions. To help ease your mind, we’ve compiled the ten most frequently asked questions from intended parents—so let’s dive in!
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How do I get started?
The first step is to schedule a consultation with one of our IVF specialists. This meeting is your chance to discuss your unique situation and ask specific questions, such as what screening tests you may need and whether you require an egg or sperm donor. Understanding your family history can also play a role in shaping your journey. -
What are the costs involved?
We offer various financial plans tailored to meet your needs. Here are some common options:- Single-cycle: Ideal for those using both a surrogate and an egg donor, covering one retrieval and one embryo transfer.
- Single-cycle, unlimited transfers: One IVF cycle with unlimited embryo transfers.
- Unlimited IVF until live birth: Unlimited retrievals and transfer cycles until you welcome your baby.
For detailed cost estimates, feel free to reach out.
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How long does the process take?
Every journey is unique, and timelines can vary. Generally, here’s what you can expect:- Embryo Creation: This usually takes about three months, involving donor screening and embryo creation.
- Finding a Surrogate: This can take several months, and we recommend starting this process early. Using a surrogacy agency can help speed things up.
- Embryo Transfer: This typically occurs during days 19-21 of the surrogate’s menstrual cycle, followed by a pregnancy test about ten days later.
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Should I work with an agency or go it alone?
We highly recommend partnering with a surrogacy agency. Managing the various aspects—like costs, legalities, and appointments—can be overwhelming. An agency can handle these details, allowing you to focus on your journey. -
Which agency should I choose?
Look for an experienced agency that resonates with you. Our in-house agency, Family Pathways, offers compassionate support throughout the entire process. Over 3,300 intended parents have successfully welcomed babies through us! -
How long does it take to match with a surrogate?
The matching timeline can vary. Generally, it takes about three to six months, depending on the preferences of both parties involved. -
What’s the screening process for donors and surrogates?
Once matched, donors undergo a thorough medical screening, which includes a review of medical history, psychological evaluation, and various tests. This can take about two to three weeks. Surrogates go through a similar process, typically completed within ten to fourteen days. -
How long does it take to finalize the legal agreement?
Finalizing the surrogacy agreement usually takes four to six weeks. This timeframe includes your review, the surrogate’s review, and the necessary legal consultations. -
When can the surrogate expect to get pregnant?
Every case is different, but the embryo transfer typically takes place within the surrogate’s menstrual cycle. Following the transfer, a pregnancy test is conducted about ten days later. The entire process can take a few months, and not all cycles result in pregnancy, which may require additional attempts. -
How many times will I need to visit California?
You’ll need to come to the clinic at least for the semen sample and the egg retrieval if you’re using your own eggs and sperm. If you’re using both a donor and a surrogate, your visits may be limited.
If you’re curious about other techniques, check out our blog post on pause pose upward salute. Also, for those considering home insemination, Make a Mom offers a great at-home insemination kit. For a broader understanding of the process, this Wikipedia page is an excellent resource.
In summary, navigating the surrogacy process can feel daunting, but knowing the answers to these common questions can help provide clarity as you embark on this exciting journey toward parenthood.