Meet Sarah, a 34-year-old entrepreneur living in the vibrant Washington, D.C. area. Recently single, she took the plunge and decided to freeze her eggs after contemplating the decision for a few years. After completing her egg freezing cycle at her fertility clinic, she felt compelled to share her journey and insights with other women considering this option, both through her personal blog and by contributing to the clinic’s blog.
Catching Up…
It’s been quite the journey to get to this point. In fact, it took Sarah around four years to finally decide to freeze her eggs after first hearing about it. So, saying yes to the first step was a huge milestone! I had to confront my feelings of vulnerability head-on.
Step #1: Egg Freezing Testing is Complete—Now What?
As May rolled in, it had been a few days since her ovarian reserve testing appointment. I vividly remember the moment when my nurse called with the results. My palms were a bit sweaty, and I felt a tightness in my chest. And guess what? It was actually Sarah’s sister on the other end! Why was I so anxious? Oh right, testing always makes me a little nuts. The egg freezing process was no exception. When things are out of my control and left to science, I tend to lose my cool! Breathe, Sarah, breathe!
Step #2: Meeting the Expert Behind the Process
My sister, who also happened to be my nurse, calmly delivered the news: “The results are in, and we’re good to go! Next up, it’s time to meet the Baby Guru*.”
So, I found myself at the clinic bright and early at 7:00 a.m. (seriously, do these people ever sleep?). The first question out of the expert’s mouth was, “Are you truly ready for this?” Wow, I hadn’t even settled into my chair! I couldn’t help but laugh, stammering, “I think so!” Clearly, that was satisfactory because he continued. He sketched out some basic diagrams of ovaries and explained the process in detail. My overall egg retrieval score was assessed, indicating my likelihood of retrieving five or more eggs. He rated it as “Good.” Instantly, I thought, “Just good? Why not excellent?”
Finding Joy in “Good”
Okay, time to chill. I reminded myself to be thankful for “good.” I took a moment to reflect on where I was in life, my age, and how grateful I was for my fertility. It dawned on me that finding out I was fertile was a relief! Just because I was 34 didn’t mean I would necessarily have a good reserve.
After discussing more of the process, I felt a bit dazed. Was I actually starting to embrace the idea of egg freezing? The Baby Guru reassured me that the freezing and thawing technology had improved dramatically over the years. This advancement made me feel like I could be in the right place at the right time. Could this be the start of a new chapter? His confidence was infectious, and I found myself wishing for a fraction of that assurance!
Then my analytical side kicked in, and I asked about the logistics. How long could we keep my frozen eggs? He informed me they could be stored until I was just over 50! I learned that the entire egg freezing process would typically take about 8 to 12 days.
I Came, I Saw, I Conquered
At that point, I realized our meeting was wrapping up. I felt empowered, having learned my egg freezing status, and my ovaries had passed the test! I now had the information I needed to decide whether to proceed with this journey and invest in my future. The thought of making this financial, emotional, and mental commitment was daunting. To freeze or not to freeze—that was the burning question!
With a spring in my step, I left the office, feeling back in control of my life. Over the coming months, I would ponder my final decision regarding egg freezing.
*Baby Guru is a playful nickname I’ve given to Dr. Mike Thompson, my physician and a leading expert in the fertility field. His confidence and expertise in guiding women and couples through their journeys have earned him this title in my heart.
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Summary:
In this segment of Sarah’s journey, she reflects on her egg freezing process after completing her testing. With news of her good ovarian reserve, she meets her fertility expert and learns about the egg freezing procedure, ultimately feeling empowered to make a decision regarding her future.