It may sound unconventional, but having my best friend (who also happens to be a guy!) assist in delivering my child made the entire experience unforgettable. Every birth story is distinct, and through our series, “My Birth Story,” we invite mothers from around the globe to share how they welcomed their little ones. The stories range from those who gave birth vaginally or via C-section to those who experienced solo births or had family by their side, each showcasing the profound beauty and emotion of childbirth.
When we relocated to Portland, Oregon, one of the first couples we connected with was Sarah and Matt. We bonded over our mutual love for dogs, board games, and classic rock music. As time went by, we not only house-sat for them but also enjoyed many get-togethers. So, when the moment came to start our family, it felt entirely natural to ask Matt, who is an OB/GYN, to deliver our baby. Alongside his laid-back demeanor and Hawaiian shirts, he was also exceptionally skilled in his field.
You might think it would be awkward to have someone you’ve played Scrabble with involved in such an intimate moment. However, Matt was incredibly relaxed, and Sarah’s nurturing nature provided a sense of comfort as we navigated this significant life transition. Moreover, his approach aligned perfectly with my birth plan; he believed in minimizing medical interventions unless absolutely necessary and offered alternative methods to consider first. He assured us that he would take as much time as needed for the baby, and since he was also the head of obstetrics at a local hospital, we felt secure knowing we had the best of both worlds.
Exploring Family Planning Options
For those considering starting a family, exploring options like home insemination can be an excellent choice. You can learn more about it at Make a Mom, which offers a unique reusable insemination option. If you’re curious about how the process works, check out this link for a detailed explanation. Additionally, a supportive community can be found at Make a Mom’s Facebook group, perfect for those seeking sperm donor matches.
If you’re interested in real-life experiences, you might find our post on how Make a Mom alleviated the stress for this couple to be insightful. And for those looking to raise emotionally intelligent kids, you can find valuable tips here. As you prepare for your pregnancy journey, the CDC offers excellent resources that can guide you through the process.
In summary, having my best friend deliver my baby turned out to be a special experience that I wouldn’t trade for anything. It reinforced the bond of friendship while also creating a memorable moment in our lives.