LGBTQ+ Fertility Care: Your Legal and Funding FAQs

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Hey there! If you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community—whether you’re a couple, single, co-parents, or in a poly family—you’re in the right spot to get the scoop on fertility care in the UK. We’re here to guide you on your journey to parenthood, helping you navigate legal parenthood and funding options. Here’s a friendly rundown of what you need to know:

NHS Funding for Fertility Treatment

Funding for fertility treatments can vary depending on where you live in the UK. Each area is managed by a local integrated care board (ICB) that sets the budget for services. If you’re a same-sex female couple or individual, here’s what you might be eligible for:

  • NHS-funded IVF after trying 6-12 self-funded cycles of IUI or artificial insemination.
  • In Scotland, you could access six cycles of funded IUI.

Just a heads-up, you might need to meet some extra criteria like being a non-smoker, having a BMI between 19-30, and not having any previous children. Check with your GP or reach out to us to explore your options further.

For same-sex male partners, surrogacy is typically the main route to parenthood, but currently, it isn’t funded by the NHS. Unfortunately, you’ll need to cover all associated costs, which can be significant.

Using a Donor? Here’s What to Know

When using a donor in the UK, you can know some basic details about them, like their age, ethnicity, and medical history. However, the donor’s identity is kept confidential. Once your child turns 16, they can access non-identifying information about the donor, and identifying info when they hit 18. Rest assured, your info remains confidential, and donors won’t know anything about you being LGBTQ+.

Surrogacy and Legal Parenthood

Surrogacy laws can be a bit tricky. It’s illegal to pay a surrogate in the UK, but you can reimburse them for expenses. This usually costs between £12,650 – £35,000, plus treatment costs. If you’re considering surrogacy, it’s essential to consult with a legal expert to ensure you understand the legal parenthood implications.

Only the surrogate is recognized as the legal mother at birth, even if she uses your or your partner’s sperm or eggs. If you’re using donor gametes, you’ll need to apply for a parental order after the child is born to transfer legal parenthood to you.

What About Trans and Non-Binary Individuals?

Currently, there’s no specific NHS guidance for trans and non-binary individuals regarding fertility treatment. Access to funding depends on your local area, similar to everyone else. Consult your GP or local gender clinic for the best advice tailored to your situation.

For LGBTQ+ Singles

If you’re single and seeking fertility options, the funding process is similar to couples. Single women typically need to self-fund 6-12 cycles of IUI before qualifying for NHS-funded IVF. For single men, any surrogacy costs will also need to be covered out-of-pocket, as it’s not funded by the NHS.

Final Thoughts

Navigating fertility treatments can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone. Whether you’re considering using a donor or exploring the world of surrogacy, it’s important to seek legal advice tailored to your circumstances. You can also explore options like fertility supplements to boost your chances of conception. For more insights into toddler growth and development, check out this blog post.

In the end, remember that you’ve got support out there! Resources like Healthline can offer excellent info on pregnancy and home insemination, and Make a Mom provides great insights on fertility supplements.


Summary: This guide covers legal and funding FAQs for LGBTQ+ individuals seeking fertility treatment in the UK. It outlines NHS funding options, donor information, surrogacy laws, and resources available for singles or trans individuals. Understanding your rights and the legal framework is key to navigating this journey.