Starting a family can be a challenging journey, especially for couples facing infertility. In the UK, about 1 in 7 couples encounter difficulties in conceiving naturally. They often explore options like in vitro fertilisation, intrauterine insemination, or various medications. However, gestational surrogacy is another alternative for those wishing to expand their families.
What Is Gestational Surrogacy?
Gestational surrogacy is the most prevalent form of surrogacy in the UK and has assisted countless individuals and couples in achieving their dreams of parenthood. But what does it entail? In essence, a gestational surrogate carries and delivers a baby for another individual or couple. Unlike traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate’s egg is used, gestational surrogacy involves creating an embryo using the eggs and sperm from the intended parents or donors. This means the surrogate has no biological connection to the child.
In some circles, gestational surrogacy is also called “host surrogacy” or “full surrogacy.” It’s generally less complex legally than traditional surrogacy since the surrogate is not genetically linked to the child, eliminating some custody issues.
Who Should Consider Gestational Surrogacy?
If you’re contemplating gestational surrogacy, you might fit into one of these categories:
- Couples or individuals facing infertility challenges
- Single parents who can’t conceive naturally
- Same-sex couples wishing to start a family
- Those who prefer no genetic link between the surrogate and the child
- Individuals unable to carry a pregnancy to term, either due to medical conditions or anatomical issues
Understanding UK Laws Around Gestational Surrogacy
The legal landscape for gestational surrogacy in the UK is evolving. It’s advisable for both intended parents and surrogates to seek separate legal counsel to ensure that everyone’s rights are protected throughout the process. While surrogacy laws can be intricate, in gestational surrogacy, at least one parent is genetically related to the child, simplifying many custody concerns.
What Are the Costs Involved?
One of the first questions people ask is about the cost of gestational surrogacy. In the UK, paying a surrogate to carry a child is illegal. However, intended parents are responsible for reimbursing reasonable expenses incurred by the surrogate during her pregnancy, including medical visits, travel costs, and possibly lost wages. On average, surrogates may receive between £10,000 and £15,000, with additional expenses if the surrogate is carrying multiples.
The Surrogacy Process
Gestational surrogacy might seem overwhelming, but it generally follows a structured process:
- Finding a Surrogate: Connecting with a surrogate through a reputable agency is crucial.
- Getting Acquainted: Both parties should spend at least three months getting to know each other, building trust and understanding.
- Creating a Surrogacy Agreement: A mediator will guide discussions to ensure clarity and agreement on all aspects of the process.
- Treatment Phase: The intended parents’ embryos are created using IVF and transferred to the surrogate.
The difference between traditional and gestational surrogacy is clear: traditional surrogacy involves the surrogate’s eggs, making her biologically connected to the child, while gestational surrogacy maintains a clear genetic distinction.
If you’re considering gestational surrogacy, think about your comfort level with the surrogate carrying your baby, the financial aspects, your desired relationship with the surrogate post-birth, and the emotional journey involved. For more insights on related topics, check out this blog post on a successful doula’s experience with home insemination.
In summary, gestational surrogacy is a viable option for many aspiring parents, but it requires careful consideration and thorough understanding of the legal and emotional implications.