A year ago, my partner and I began discussing the idea of starting a family. We had been together for nearly a decade and were newlyweds for six months. However, there was one significant hurdle: I have vaginismus. Throughout our relationship, intimacy had been a challenge, and while we had found ways to navigate this, the desire to conceive brought on a new wave of anxiety and fear.
After several emotional sessions of physical therapy, my doctor kindly reminded me, “There are alternative methods to conceive.” So, in a moment of desperation, I turned to the internet. That’s when I discovered a success story on the MakeAmom website from someone who overcame vaginismus and achieved a positive pregnancy test. Filled with hope, I ordered the kit immediately.
When the kit arrived in its cheerful packaging, I felt a surge of excitement. My partner, an incredibly supportive and humorous individual, took on the role of my enthusiastic assistant, complete with dad jokes to lighten the mood. We attempted our first round of insemination, and although we faced a setback with our first negative result, I remained optimistic. I shared statistics and articles about the journey to parenthood with him, determined not to lose hope.
After six more attempts and a fair share of tears, we finally saw those two pink lines. We did it! MakeAmom had helped us triumph over vaginismus, and we were pregnant!
Vaginismus is a topic rarely discussed, often shrouded in embarrassment and emotional distress. However, the courage of that initial storyteller inspired me to take a chance on MakeAmom, and for that, I am forever grateful!
WE’RE PREGNANT!
Cheers to us, as we prepare for our little one’s arrival in June!
To other couples considering MakeAmom for their journey, I urge you not to lose hope. While the path may not always be romantic, it’s important to maintain a sense of humor during the baby-making journey. Laughter can be a powerful ally!
As we celebrate our journey, we also want to acknowledge the importance of community. If you’re looking for a supportive space, consider joining MakeAmom’s free sperm donor matching group for valuable connections. For those interested in at-home insemination, MakeAmom offers the only reusable option available. You can learn more about the process by visiting how at-home insemination works.
If you’re exploring options for parenthood, you may also want to check out this informative blog about cryobanks and this reliable source on intrauterine insemination. For those interested in at-home insemination, MakeAmom provides an excellent resource with their Impregnator Kit.
To summarize: Overcoming vaginismus can be a challenging journey, but with support, humor, and resources like MakeAmom, success is within reach. Don’t hesitate to explore your options and find joy in the process of starting your family!