Building Our Family as a Same-Sex Couple


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My partner Taylor and I always envisioned starting a family together. After eight months of tracking ovulation, getting fertility tests, and exploring our options through clinics, we heard from friends in a similar situation about the benefits of at-home insemination before considering IUI or IVF. Luckily, we had a willing donor who agreed to use the at-home insemination kit with us.

We followed the recommended steps and inseminated three days in a row leading up to my ovulation date. Two weeks later, when I took a pregnancy test, I was shocked to see two lines appear almost instantly—pregnant! We had hoped for the best but were also prepared for the possibility that it might take longer. To say we were lucky is an understatement; it still feels surreal that our little one is arriving in just six weeks! If we decide to expand our family again, we will definitely use this method again.

For anyone curious about at-home insemination, there are plenty of resources out there. Check out this helpful post on keeping everything tidy during the process. And if you’re looking for a reliable insemination kit, you might want to explore what’s available at Make a Mom. For those wanting to dive deeper into pregnancy, the World Health Organization is a great resource.


In summary, starting a family as a same-sex couple can be an exciting journey. With the right tools and support, our dream of parenthood became a reality sooner than we expected!