After completing successful IVF treatment, Ava decided to give back by donating her eggs to help others facing similar challenges. The couple was overjoyed with the outcome.
Ava and James never expected to encounter difficulties conceiving. However, a year after stopping birth control, they found themselves still trying without success. Concerned, they visited their GP and were referred for tests at their local hospital.
The doctors conducted blood tests throughout Ava’s cycle to check for ovulation and assessed her AMH levels to evaluate her ovarian reserve. They also examined her fallopian tubes for any blockages and analyzed James’s semen, even though he had two children from a previous relationship. These tests are standard and often reveal factors that require further investigation. Unfortunately, the couple received the diagnosis of unexplained infertility—a condition affecting one in four couples in the UK. “It was really tough,” Ava recalled. “When the results came back as unexplained, we kept wondering why it wasn’t happening.”
Determined to explore their options, they opted for IVF at TFP Oxford Fertility, drawn by the clinic’s high success rates and positive reviews. On the day of egg collection, Ava learned that she had a high ovarian count. To their delight, twenty-three eggs were collected. They decided to fertilize twelve of them with James’s sperm and donate the remaining eleven to help others in need. “If we were in need of eggs, we’d hope for a donor,” Ava shared. “I knew there were people out there longing for a baby just like me.”
The lead-up to egg collection was intense, filled with medications and injections. Although it was challenging, Ava felt it was worth it. “Our family and friends were aware of our IVF journey,” she mentioned. “I initially felt ashamed of my body, but online support groups helped me realize we were not alone. IVF requires incredible strength.”
Due to Ava’s elevated hormone levels, all embryos were frozen to provide the best chance for a successful transfer later. Though she understood the reasoning behind it, she felt ‘devastated’ about the delay. After the first embryo transfer, Ava waited anxiously for two weeks before taking a pregnancy test, only to receive a negative result. “I was crushed. I couldn’t even call James; I just texted him the news. All my hopes were pinned on the second transfer.”
For the second attempt, Ava focused on self-care and keeping busy while waiting for the test results, taking time off work to walk, read, and even hand-make a rug. Two weeks later, she nervously took the test. “I was a bundle of nerves. I did the test and hopped back into bed, waiting for James to read it,” she recounted.
Finally, the couple received the joyous news—they were expecting! During the first scan, the sonographer detected two “perfectly beating” hearts in Ava’s womb. They were having twin girls, which thrilled them as twins ran in Ava’s family.
Reflecting on their IVF experience, Ava expressed gratitude for the support from TFP Oxford Fertility. The team stood by them through every step, particularly during the heartbreaking first transfer failure. James was also a pillar of strength, never losing hope. Ava advised others, “If you’re in this situation, don’t lose faith. Stay strong and don’t be ashamed to share your journey. Remember, you were given this mountain to show others it can be moved.”
Months after welcoming their baby girls, Ava and James were elated to learn that their donated eggs had helped another couple conceive a little girl. “It filled us with such happiness,” Ava said.
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Summary
Ava and James faced unexplained infertility but found hope through IVF at TFP Oxford Fertility. After a tough journey involving egg donation and two embryo transfers, they were overjoyed to welcome twin girls and even happier to learn their donated eggs helped another couple conceive. Their story emphasizes the importance of support and faith during challenging times.