Written by Jamie Taylor. Reviewed by Alex Morgan & Sam Rivera.
At OVUM, we believe that everyone deserves the chance to start a family. We are committed to addressing the fertility disparities faced by LGBTQIA+ individuals seeking to conceive. Our team has consulted with the community, experts, and healthcare professionals to create this comprehensive guide aimed at helping same-sex female couples navigate their journey to parenthood. We are grateful to our partners at LGBTQ Mummies for their invaluable collaboration.
Understanding Fertility Disparities
According to the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA), there has been a notable increase in IVF treatment among female same-sex couples, rising from 27% in 2008 to 45% in 2018. However, the majority of fertility treatments still cater to heterosexual couples, with significant funding inequalities. A 2020 report revealed that 39% of IVF cycles for heterosexual couples were funded by the NHS, compared to only 14% for individuals assigned female at birth.
Funding for fertility treatments is governed by local Integrated Care Boards (ICBs), leading to inconsistencies across regions. A 2021 investigation highlighted that 76% of Clinical Commissioning Groups (now ICBs) required same-sex female couples to self-fund a minimum of three artificial insemination cycles, with some areas demanding up to 12 cycles, costing as much as £50,000. Activists like Emma and Zoe Harrison have fought for fertility equality, leading to discussions about the Women’s Health Strategy for England, aiming to improve access over the next decade.
Where to Begin When Trying to Conceive as LGBTQIA+
Assess Your Fertility and Options
The first step is to get tested. Regardless of who may carry the baby, both partners should undergo fertility evaluation. Infertility does not discriminate based on sexual orientation or gender identity. Conditions like endometriosis and PCOS affect approximately 10% of women assigned female at birth, so it’s essential to discuss any known health issues with your doctor, as they can influence your conception plans.
Finding the Right Sperm
When it comes to selecting a sperm donor, there are several factors to consider. Do you want to know their medical history? What about their physical traits? The biggest question is where to obtain sperm.
- Use a Sperm Bank: For those who prefer anonymity, licensed sperm banks are a great option. You’ll have access to important information about the donor but won’t know their identity. Many sperm banks offer Open-ID Disclosure options, allowing you to learn about the donor when the child is older. Additionally, some clinics allow you to reserve extra samples for future use. It’s advisable to choose an HFEA-approved clinic, which ensures thorough health screenings and sperm quality checks.
- Consider a Known Donor: If you’re thinking about asking a friend or acquaintance to donate, it’s a valid choice. However, it’s usually safer to go through a licensed clinic to ensure proper health checks and minimize legal complications related to parenthood. This route can help clarify any potential issues that might arise with a known donor.
What to Know About Your Donor
If you opt for a donor from a licensed clinic or sperm bank, you’ll have access to essential details about them. This information can help you make informed decisions about your family’s future. For tips on maintaining your health while trying to conceive, check out this post on optimal pre-pregnancy workouts.
In conclusion, while the journey to parenthood can be filled with challenges, understanding your options and rights is crucial. Whether you choose to work with a sperm bank or a known donor, being informed will empower you on your path to starting a family.