By: The Home Insemination Team
Date: March 24, 2023
My husband Jake and I, aged 33 and 38, respectively, took our time before diving into the world of parenthood. We wanted to focus on our careers and strengthen our relationship first. Officially, we began trying in July of this year. I was really curious about the science behind conception, so I did some baseline testing. I had positive results from basic fertility blood work using modernfertility.com, a transvaginal ultrasound that cost $180, ovulation strips, and regular periods since stopping birth control. Jake also got tested through meetfellow.com, and his sperm analysis came back excellent.
Our goal was to gather some insight into our fertility so we could address any potential issues proactively. I did notice that I had low cervical fluid, so I started taking supplements to help with that, including Borage oil and Evening Primrose for about three weeks leading up to our conception.
I also have mild vaginismus, which means my pelvic floor muscles can be tight, making intercourse a bit uncomfortable at first. After four months of trying, I decided to explore home insemination on our fifth attempt. It was refreshing to have an alternative to the sometimes pressured experience of “baby-making” sex. We found that this method allowed us to enjoy intimacy without the stress of trying to conceive every time we were intimate, which was a pleasant surprise.
I used the syringe three times—two days before ovulation, the day before, and the day of ovulation—because of my cervical fluid concerns. Ten days later, I took an HCG test, and there it was: a faint line! We were ecstatic! The relief of moving from uncertainty to a positive test was indescribable.
While we can’t say for certain if timing, supplements, or the home insemination method was the key factor, we are thrilled that we tried this approach. It worked exclusively for us this time, as we didn’t conceive through traditional intercourse.
Overall, we’re grateful for the resources available and would love to share our experiences if we decide to expand our family in the future. The design of the kit and the support we received were top-notch.
For those interested in specifics, I wish I could share more about the positions we tried during insemination. I was on my back twice and on my side once, but I couldn’t determine which position was more effective, especially since I have a tilted uterus. Some studies suggest that position might not significantly affect conception chances.
– Sarah and Jake from Georgia
It’s fantastic to read such a thorough account of your experience. Your thoughtful preparation and the reasons behind choosing home insemination will surely inspire other couples navigating similar journeys. The distinction between recreational and reproductive intimacy is a crucial one, and it’s a primary reason for developing this method. Thank you for sharing your insights with the community, and congratulations on your amazing news! We wish you a smooth pregnancy journey ahead.
If you’d like to read more about home insemination, check out this truthful approach to the topic. You can also find expert advice at Healthline, and for a reliable home insemination kit, visit Make a Mom.
Summary:
Jake and Sarah, a couple in their early thirties and late thirties respectively, share their journey into parenthood through home insemination after several months of trying. They combined personal research, fertility testing, and natural supplements to optimize their chances. Their experience highlights the importance of separating intimacy from reproduction, allowing them to enjoy their relationship while pursuing their dream of starting a family.