It’s morning, and my toddler, Noah, is feeling under the weather with a fever and cold symptoms. Instead of his usual energetic chatter and play, he’s dozing in my arms on the couch. I gently stroke his hair, captivated by the rhythm of his breathing. Though I have a long list of tasks to tackle, I could stay in this moment forever.
But it wasn’t always like this. Back when Noah was just three months old, I found myself at a local moms’ group, and the topic of discussion shifted to nap routines. I wasn’t interested in the sporadic 20-minute catnaps of newborn life; I craved a more structured schedule that would allow me some personal time. During those first months, Noah would only nap while being held in a carrier or sling. Meanwhile, the other moms seemed to be establishing regular routines, and I figured it was time to give it a shot ourselves. After all, he wasn’t a newborn anymore—he should be ready for a change, right?
Setting up a nap routine started promisingly. I’d cuddle Noah, read him a couple of stories, and rock him gently until he was sleepy yet awake. Then I’d place him in his crib and tiptoe out, thrilled at the prospect of a few moments to myself. However, the real challenge arose precisely 30 minutes later when Noah would wake up wailing. No amount of soothing could coax him back to sleep in his crib. According to my carefully crafted schedule, he was supposed to nap for another hour, and if he woke up now, the rest of the day would be thrown completely off balance.
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