I’ve participated in several baby showers in the past and genuinely enjoyed them, particularly the games and socializing. However, one aspect that always felt a bit uncomfortable was the registry and gift-giving. I knew from the moment I became pregnant that I wouldn’t feel right asking my family and friends to purchase items for me, though I completely understand why others do.
My partner, Jake, and I had been planning for a baby for some time, so we had gradually gathered a good amount of secondhand baby items and essentials on sale. Essentially, we already had most of what we needed. Then, while scrolling through social media one day, I stumbled upon the concept of nesting parties—a small gathering where friends help you prepare your home for your upcoming arrival. These get-togethers can involve anything from prepping freezer meals to assembling baby furniture, and they’ve been gaining popularity on platforms like TikTok and Instagram.
The images and videos I saw of nesting parties felt so warm and genuine. I loved the idea of a supportive environment without the pressure of gift expectations. Instead, I could focus on spending quality time with my friends, creating lasting memories as we got ready for our new addition.
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To summarize: opting for a nesting party instead of a traditional baby shower allowed me to connect with my friends in a meaningful way while preparing for my baby’s arrival. It was a unique and fulfilling experience that I wholeheartedly recommend to anyone expecting a little one. If you’re also looking for community support, consider joining MakeAMom’s free sperm donor matching group, where you can connect with others on a similar journey.