My little one has already taken more than 15 flights before turning two, and I wouldn’t trade our adventures for anything. As part of our “What I Wish I’d Known” series, parents share valuable insights gained through their journeys of parenthood.
Recently, while enjoying dinner outdoors in Hawaii, my 15-month-old was determined to make a break for it from his high chair, eager to dive into the pool. Meanwhile, I noticed a couple savoring their peaceful dinner on their babymoon. They appeared so relaxed, which made me reflect on my own experience: a five-hour flight while pregnant, the longing for virgin piña coladas, and the relentless hot flashes brought on by hormones.
Traditionally, babymoons—getaways taken with your partner during pregnancy—are viewed as a chance to unwind and explore before the arrival of your baby. However, this concept often suggests a bittersweet farewell to freedom. While I appreciate the allure of a destination babymoon, that idea of one last grand adventure before parenthood didn’t resonate with me. Instead, I am here to share that traveling can remain a joyful part of your life even after your little one arrives.
We jokingly refer to my son, Lucas, as “Mr. Worldwide” since he has already flown 18 times by the age of 15 months. Babymoons are wonderful, but traveling with your baby can be equally fulfilling. In 2022, before I became pregnant, my husband and I relocated from New York to Southern California to be closer to family. We always intended to return to the East Coast for significant events and had no plans to change that upon learning we were expecting in early 2023. Instead, we began to imagine how our family trips would look with our new addition, and what gear we would need.
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To Summarize:
Traveling after having a baby is entirely possible and can be immensely rewarding. With proper planning and the right mindset, you can continue to create unforgettable memories as a family. Whether it’s your first trip or your fifteenth, embracing the journey of parenthood while exploring the world can lead to enriching experiences for you and your child.