My partner and I had been dreaming of starting a family for quite some time. I stopped my birth control in April 2015, but shortly after, my partner began experiencing performance issues. It became clear that creating a baby necessitated successful ejaculation, which added a layer of stress to an already sensitive situation. I felt hesitant to discuss this with anyone, as it was deeply personal. Our communication faltered, and we found ourselves avoiding the topic altogether.
The year 2016 was particularly tough, filled with frequent arguments and growing frustration. We dreaded coming home from work, and at that point, we had all but given up on our baby aspirations. All of this tension put us at a breaking point.
In 2017, we decided to seek counseling. Initially, it was overwhelming, filled with tears and difficult conversations. However, through this process, we learned to confront our individual issues and grow together as a couple. We improved our communication skills and rekindled joy in our relationship. By January 2018, we felt ready to genuinely pursue our goal of starting a family.
We consulted my doctor about options like IVF, which would involve using my partner’s sperm. While she was supportive, the costs were daunting. During a discussion with my therapist, she suggested we explore the “turkey baster method.” I was unfamiliar with this approach but intrigued by the idea.
After some research, I came across MakeAmom, and I was thrilled with what I found! Their resources and videos inspired us to take the plunge. We ordered three kits and had a great time experimenting with them. Although we didn’t conceive in January, February, or March, we focused on the days my ovulation app indicated were peak fertility.
I traveled in April and May during ovulation, causing us to miss those months. A friend then recommended the Natural Cycles app for a more accurate tracking of ovulation. In June, we used the syringe method every other day during my fertile window, but to no avail. July yielded the same results, but then came the exciting news: I took a pregnancy test last week and received a #bigfatpositive! We are overjoyed to be expecting our little one! Thank you, MakeAmom; your support made all the difference!
Best wishes,
Jamie & Alex from Minneapolis, MN
Jamie & Alex, we are truly honored to share your inspiring journey. The path to conception is often filled with emotional ups and downs, and many people can relate to your experience. The stress associated with trying to conceive can be overwhelming and may even interfere with intimacy. We commend you both for overcoming these obstacles and achieving success with MakeAmom. We’re confident that you will excel in this next chapter of your journey together—congratulations and all the best to your growing family!
If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination, check out MakeAmom’s how it works guide or join a supportive community like MakeAmom’s free sperm donor matching group on Facebook. For more insights on at-home insemination options, visit MakeAmom’s syringe kits page. If you’re curious about fertility implications, this blog may provide additional context. For those considering IVF, you can find reliable information at American Pregnancy Association.
To Summarize:
Jamie and Alex’s emotional journey of trying to conceive for three years came to a joyful conclusion with the help of MakeAmom. By navigating personal challenges, seeking support, and utilizing home insemination methods, they found success in their pregnancy journey. Their story serves as an inspiration to others facing similar struggles.