As a first-time mom at 32, my husband and I were eager and excited. The early months of my pregnancy were filled with joy and anticipation. We spent countless evenings discussing baby names and our hopes for our future child, aiming to raise a kind, loving human. I diligently attended all my appointments and avoided the usual no-nos, like soft cheeses and raw fish. During a routine anatomy scan, however, the doctor’s words about an echogenic bowel sent my heart racing. I felt lost and uncertain, wondering if this spelled trouble for our baby.
As my pregnancy progressed, we faced numerous tests and consultations with various specialists. Despite our efforts, we were left with more questions than answers and an ever-present cloud of worry. When it was finally time for my C-section, I felt a mix of excitement and dread. Holding Lily, a tiny 4 pounds and 2 ounces, was a moment I had dreamed of, but the news that she had CMV hit me like a ton of bricks.
The word “CMV” echoed in my mind as I grappled with the reality that our daughter would face significant challenges. I realized how little I knew about this virus, which is more common than Down Syndrome or Spina Bifida yet hardly discussed. I couldn’t shake the feeling of mourning for the “normal” life I envisioned for her.
Lily had a severe case of CMV, requiring weekly early intervention services and various therapies. Yet, despite her struggles, her bright smile and infectious laugh brought immeasurable joy to our lives. Sadly, we lost Lily in January 2016 due to complications. In that moment, I knew I had to turn my pain into purpose and help others understand this virus.
Awareness about CMV is crucial. According to recent surveys, only 9% of women are aware of CMV, even though it affects over 30,000 infants in the U.S. each year. Many don’t realize CMV can be asymptomatic or mimic cold symptoms, but it poses a significant risk during pregnancy, especially for women with young children.
What Can Expectant Mothers Do?
First, take charge of your health. If you’re considering pregnancy, ask your doctor about CMV testing. If you’re already pregnant, it’s not too late! This simple blood test can be covered by insurance and provide vital information about your health and potential risks.
June is dedicated to CMV Awareness Month. Our mission is to educate women about congenital CMV and strive toward eliminating it for future generations. Here are some key points to remember:
- CMV is common: It is the leading viral infection in newborns, affecting thousands of babies annually.
- CMV is serious: It can lead to significant health issues, including hearing loss and developmental delays.
- CMV is preventable: Simple hygiene practices can reduce the risk of transmission, especially for those with young children.
By taking preventive measures—like avoiding sharing utensils or being cautious with saliva—you can protect yourself and your baby. If you suspect an active infection, your healthcare provider can offer guidance, including potential testing like amniocentesis.
Remember to breathe, stay informed, and reach out to your healthcare provider about any health concerns. For more information on pregnancy and home insemination, check out this excellent resource from the CDC. And if you’re looking for a comprehensive guide on at-home insemination, you might find this post on celebrating a baby shower interesting.
CMV is a topic that deserves more attention. By educating ourselves and others, we can help safeguard the health of future generations.
Summary
CMV, or cytomegalovirus, is a common viral infection that significantly impacts newborns, affecting thousands each year. Despite its prevalence, many expectant mothers are unaware of it. Awareness and education are crucial for prevention and management. Simple hygiene practices can help reduce the risk, and testing can provide vital information for pregnant women.