Updated: August 21, 2015
Originally Published: November 8, 2013
Let’s be honest: the judgment and criticism among mothers regarding our parenting choices have become exhausting. It’s time we take a deep breath and turn to the woman next to us and say, “Enough is enough.”
I really don’t care if your child co-sleeps with you until they’re practically adults, or if they’ve never shared your bed for a single night. It’s not my place to judge. Whether you choose to feed your little one formula, organic vegetables, or even the occasional fast food, it’s your decision—so let’s let go of the comparisons. We’re all navigating this journey in our own unique ways.
Let’s unite our voices as mothers and declare, “We are all doing our very best!” Instead of tearing each other down, let’s build one another up. When motherhood feels overwhelming, reach out to me. I’ll be there with a glass of wine if that’s your thing, ready to listen without trying to fix everything. We all face challenges in this role, and I’ve been there too.
Even though I think my child is a remarkable little being, I know he can be just as irritating as your kid can be to you. It’s part of parenting, and I won’t harbor any ill feelings. I promise not to engage in a mental competition or compare our kids. They will grow and learn at their own pace, independent of our expectations.
When you find yourself yelling in frustration at your child in a public place, I’ll understand. We all have moments when we reach our breaking point. I’ll be there to empathize and offer a supportive thumbs-up, knowing we’re all just doing our best.
I won’t judge your parenting choices. I don’t know your child like you do, and I never will. My opinions on your methods reflect my own insecurities, not yours. I’ll always remember that.
When you need help, I’ll be there. We all go through rough patches, and we need each other. Whether it’s lending an ear, providing a meal, or simply sharing a laugh, I’m here for you.
Let’s stand together. Only we understand the craziness that comes with motherhood—the love that drives us to the edge and those moments we just need chocolate. Our partners and kids might not get it, but we do, and that’s what matters.
Let’s drop the divisive arguments: working versus stay-at-home moms, breastfeeding versus bottle-feeding, and so on. Let’s acknowledge that we’re raising imperfect human beings who will thrive despite our mistakes.
In the end, perhaps understanding one another better will help us instill the most important lessons in our children. And maybe we can use the internet for its original purpose—like looking at adorable cat photos or having a good laugh at celebrities.
Are you with me?
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Summary:
The Motherhood Manifesto encourages mothers to support one another instead of engaging in judgment and criticism over parenting choices. It advocates for unity, understanding, and empathy among mothers, recognizing the struggles each faces. By letting go of divisive debates around parenting methods, mothers can focus on raising their children with love and understanding, while also forming a supportive network.