I have a confession: I absolutely detest homework. From doing it myself to assisting my child with it, I find it incredibly frustrating. Yes, I have a kindergartner, and believe it or not, he has quite a bit of homework. Each week begins with a packet that must be completed by Thursday, filled with worksheets that often lack clear instructions. I struggle to decipher what the teacher expects and, consequently, how to guide him through it.
In addition to that, he receives unfinished worksheets from school that simply say “please finish,” leaving me to wonder how I can help him complete them. Beyond that, there are reading assignments, poetry folders, and even family homework. Family homework? I did my time in kindergarten, thank you very much!
I may sound a bit disgruntled, but I’m fed up with the nightly battles over homework. I’m exhausted from having to teach concepts that should have been covered in class but aren’t. My husband and I both work, and after rushing home to prepare dinner, we find ourselves entrenched in homework. Then it’s bath time, bedtime, and we gear up to do it all over again the next day. My son is often surprised when we announce, “You don’t have any homework,” which is a rarity—mostly limited to weekends.
Research suggests that homework in early grades is largely ineffective, offering little indication of learning or progress, and primarily leading to burnout. The fights and tears—some of which are mine—are becoming too much to handle. By the time he reaches first grade, I fear my son will develop a disdain for learning altogether. What kind of lesson does this teach young children?
I’m not opposed to education; I’m a lawyer who actively volunteers at my child’s school and values education, reading, and writing. I just can’t fathom how worksheets and nightly assignments, especially those that extend well into upper grades, effectively contribute to a child’s learning. Often, it’s the parents who end up doing the homework, and in the end, the kids aren’t absorbing anything meaningful.
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Conclusion
In summary, the homework situation for young children can be overwhelming and often seems counterproductive, leaving parents and kids feeling frustrated and burnt out. It’s essential to evaluate the impact of such assignments on a child’s love for learning and overall development.