As my maternity leave draws to a close, I can’t help but reflect on the whirlwind of thoughts that have crossed my mind recently. Here’s a glimpse into the questions that have been swirling around as I prepare to return to work:
- Is it reasonable to launch a crowdfunding campaign to support my desire to be a stay-at-home mom? Would anyone actually contribute?
- At what point in the day is it socially acceptable to pour a glass of wine on a workday? And for that matter, how concerning is it to drink wine throughout the day while breastfeeding?
- How productive can I be with a constantly nursing 2-month-old attached to me? Would it be inappropriate to join a video call with the little one still nursing?
- Is it acceptable to skip showering and remain in pajamas while juggling a full-time job and caring for an infant, all while managing preschool drop-offs and pickups?
- Can I function on just four hours of sleep while balancing full-time work and the demands of an infant and a preschooler?
- What are my chances of hitting the jackpot in the lottery and becoming financially independent?
- How vital is it for me to own my own home? Could I make it by selling everything and moving in with my parents to escape mortgage payments and become a stay-at-home mom?
- Is it crazy to consider selling all my possessions, quitting my job, and traveling across the country in an RV with my husband and two kids?
- Would it be absurd to sell everything, quit my job, and buy one-way tickets to a tropical paradise like Fiji to live as a stay-at-home mom?
- Can I really make it work living simply in a small space with my family so I can leave my job and care for my kids full time?
- Is it possible to finish writing my book in just four days, submit it to a publisher, and secure a big advance that allows me to avoid returning to work?
- And lastly, the question that has me most frustrated: Why are the policies surrounding maternity leave in America so inadequate, leaving working moms with so little time off?
As I grapple with these thoughts, I find myself seeking answers and support from various resources. For instance, if you’re looking for tips on managing a sleep schedule for your little one, check out this post on sample naptimes for a 4-month-old. And if you’re considering home insemination, you might find valuable information at this site that specializes in at-home insemination kits.
In summary, returning to work after maternity leave brings a cascade of emotions and questions. From pondering financial independence to exploring unconventional living situations, it’s a time filled with uncertainty and reflection.