It’s no secret that babies don’t arrive with a manual in hand. There’s no formal training, no tests to pass before you dive into parenthood. You leave the hospital, pride swelling in your chest, while simultaneously realizing you have no clue what you’re doing. How many of you paused the car on the way home just to ensure that tiny human was still breathing? I admit, I did it twice.
Once you’re home, the reality sets in: your life is forever altered. The cycle of diaper changes and feedings begins, and suddenly, someone else’s needs take precedence over your own. This overwhelming responsibility is as exhilarating as it is daunting. It’s the embodiment of parenthood—everything you anticipated yet completely unlike what you envisioned.
Soon enough, the outside world intrudes upon your newborn bliss, offering advice, warnings, and judgments. There are countless methods for doing things, and someone will always criticize your choices. Your precious little one is now on a timeline filled with milestones—first smile, first tooth, the elusive full night’s sleep, crawling, walking, talking, potty training, and maybe even performing Shakespearean monologues (okay, probably not the last one, but it would be amusing).
Listen Up, New Parents
All of these milestones will happen!
Sure, you won’t see many adults wandering around with pacifiers (though I can think of a few notable exceptions from my husband’s bachelor party). Those early morning wake-ups and late-night feedings may feel eternal, but trust that they will pass. Parents of teenagers often joke about having to wake their kids for school. And let’s be honest: no one wants a partner who still needs their mom to tuck them in at night; that’s a deal breaker.
You might find yourself worrying that your child is lagging behind while others are already walking. And yes, that proud moment when they take their first steps will be bittersweet as you reflect on the days when they couldn’t move without your help. You’ll miss those late-night snuggles, too—maybe not immediately, but eventually, you’ll long for those moments. Each milestone celebrated signifies a step away from the helpless little bundle you took home.
When you’re knee-deep in sleepless nights and relentless feedings, just know that it won’t last forever. In a blink, you’ll find yourself shopping for school uniforms, marveling at this little person who has developed their own opinions and is not shy about expressing them.
Some milestones will come easily; others will require hard work and perseverance. At times, you may feel like you have a child prodigy on your hands, while at other moments, you might worry they’re falling behind. But remember, through every success and challenge, that little person you created will always be perfect in your eyes.
For the little one who may not be reciting Shakespeare just yet but could surely outrun Usain Bolt—hats off to them!
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In summary, parenting is a journey filled with milestones that will come, even if they’re not always what you expect. Embrace the chaos and know that each moment, whether challenging or joyful, is a part of the beautiful adventure of raising your child.