Summer is here, and I have to say, it’s a much more enjoyable season now that my kids are older. I do reminisce about those days when they would joyfully run through the sprinkler, creating lasting memories, but I was often left feeling utterly drained and covered in dirt.
There are so many reasons I appreciate summer more now:
Reading Together
My kids have finally reached an age where we can share and discuss the same books. No longer do I need to read the same bedtime story fifty times! They are now able to read independently. Some nights, we all lie in our beds with lamps on, quietly immersed in our books. It’s a serene experience that fills the house with a sense of calm, punctuated only by the soft sound of a page turning or a yawn.
Teaching New Skills
Gone are the days of changing diapers and wiping noses. Now, I find myself teaching my daughter how to shave her legs and showing my son the ropes of grooming. They’ve developed their sense of style and often seek my opinion on their outfits. Our conversations have deepened, touching on relationships and feelings, which is incredibly rewarding as they truly listen and understand.
No More Playground Duty
I’m relieved to be free from hours spent at the playground under the blazing sun. My kids now ride their bikes with friends, giving me the chance to enjoy some peace while I read or check my phone on the porch. Despite their independence, I can still hear their laughter echoing in the neighborhood, and knowing they’re active is a fantastic bonus.
Beach Days
At the beach, my kids can now apply their own sunscreen and prepare their lunches. They’ve learned how to dry off and don’t mind being covered in sand. Their swimming skills have improved significantly, allowing me to finally relax and enjoy the water without constant worry.
Sleeping In
They sleep longer now, which means I can catch some extra rest or enjoy a longer run before they wake. The idea of running was exhausting when they were toddlers, but now I find I have the energy to embrace it. I love being the first to rise, sneaking out for a bit of “me time.”
Late-Night Fun
We can stay up late watching movies and enjoying popcorn they’ve made themselves. If I feel tired, I can just head to bed, knowing they can put themselves to sleep. Often, they end up tucking me in!
But the best part of summer with older kids? It’s the time we get to spend together. The school year can feel long, and their activities often take us in different directions. Summer allows us to slow down, relax the rules, and enjoy a more laid-back routine—sometimes even staying in pajamas all day.
This lighthearted pace is what makes my summer truly special.
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Summary
Summer becomes increasingly enjoyable as children grow older, allowing for shared activities, deeper conversations, and a more relaxed family dynamic. It’s a time filled with laughter, learning, and cherished moments together.