In a recent chat with fellow parents navigating the challenges of raising children with autism, one mom expressed her frustration over hearing others comment about how “fortunate” we are to have access to free summer programs. Yes, it can feel a bit overwhelming, even angering, to hear such remarks. I can relate! It’s easy to wish for the simpler problem of finding a good camp. So, I suggested she respond with, “Autism, yes, I’m embracing the perks!” This got us all reflecting on the silver linings.
1. Convenient School Transportation
One of the best perks? The bus stop is literally my driveway! I can comfortably watch my child hop on the bus, often still in my slippers and sipping coffee. It’s just a few steps from the door to the bus. The same goes for drop-off; I just step outside, phone in hand, and enjoy the moments of peace.
2. Incredible Therapists
I have been fortunate to meet some of the most dedicated professionals in the field. When I find myself feeling lost or frustrated, I have a network of experts to turn to with questions and advice. Shoutout to the amazing speech therapist who has finally helped my child with his eating habits—she’s truly a lifesaver!
3. Supportive Online Community
The online community is a true blessing. Whether it’s 4:30 AM wake-up calls or sheer exhaustion, there’s always someone ready to chat. From commiserating about sleepless nights to sharing updates on favorite shows, the camaraderie is invaluable.
4. Child Study Team
My child has a dedicated team at school, forming an “autism think tank.” When we convene, real progress happens, and I feel supported knowing that everyone is working together for my child’s success.
5. Exploration of Alternative Treatments
Every parent of an autistic child embarks on a journey of exploration to uncover treatments that can help their child. What may have seemed unconventional a few years ago is now a viable option. With insurance covering some visits, it’s worth trying out new approaches. This mindset has even impacted my own health choices positively.
6. Appreciation for the Little Victories
The smallest milestones can leave me breathless with joy. These moments of progress, however insignificant they may seem to others, are monumental to me. Cherish these achievements and never apologize for celebrating them—they matter.
7. Enhanced Problem-Solving Skills
Raising a child with autism has taught me to look at challenges from various perspectives. This has not only helped me better support my child but has also changed how I approach life in general. It’s been an enlightening experience.
So yes, there are undeniable perks to having a child with autism. Just remember—never tell a parent of an autistic child how lucky they are to access “free camp” during the summer.
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Summary:
Navigating the journey of raising a child with autism can bring about unique challenges, but it also offers numerous benefits. From convenient transportation and incredible support networks to the joy found in small victories, these perks can transform the parenting experience. Always cherish the progress, embrace the community, and remember to celebrate every achievement—big or small.